2021.12.07 15:05 heartbrokenfriendd I (19m) grew distant after being rejected by my crush (19f) and now our whole friend group is vilifying me for it
Hey everyone. So this is the first time I've written something like this and it's hard to find the words to fully describe how I'm feeling. I'm sorry if this gets too long and I'm grateful for any advice.
So a couple of months ago at a friend's party I was chilling, having a good time... y'know the usual. During the party I saw this girl and it's as if time just stopped lmao. She was the prettiest, most perfect, most amazing thing ever. I'm a pretty confident guy and I have never really felt nervous getting girls, but she was just different. My heart started racing when I saw her there and it was as if all the energy just left my body. I remember thinking wtf I've never felt like this before lol! Eventually I went over and introduced myself and had literally the best time just talking to her. Most of it was a blur tbh since I was literally mesmerized by this girl. I remember thinking my god everything about her is perfect - her pretty eyes, her pretty hair, her pretty smile. Lol even just typing this hurts since I'm so heartbroken right now.
So yeah as time went on we grew closer. We would initially hang out with our mutual friends but soon I started inviting her out to places alone. I never mentioned it was a 'date' or anything but we would just go to a coffee shop and talk about whatever pretty much. I just loved spending time with her and I think she liked spending time with me too. I was head over heels with her since the day I saw her at the my friend's party but I didn't want to rush things. I have literally never felt like this with any other girl. She was different, she was really special. I would get a warm fuzzy comforting feeling in my chest just thinking about her.
A few weeks back I mustered the courage to ask her out 'officially'. She said that she really loves me as a friend and didn't want to ruin our friendship. She also said that she wasn't looking for a relationship with anyone at the moment. Now you guys, I would NEVER wish that feeling on anyone no matter how bad they are lol. It was as if my soul shattered into a million pieces and the life was getting sucked out of my body. Call me dramatic but I'm being genuinely serious I would never wish that rejected feeling I got on ANYONE. I felt like pure shit and was heartbroken beyond belief. I'm slightly embarrassed to admit that I even cried a few times alone because of this. I genuinely wanted nothing more in the world than to be with her.
The initial week after the rejection I was just hurting BAD lol. Even now I struggle a bit to fully move on because of how much I liked her. I didn't just want to be her friend, but because of how much I liked her I didn't want to upset her and continued hanging out with her. A few days later she tells our friend group that she's started dating this random guy. I was like what? She literally told me a few days back she wasn't looking to date anyone at the moment. I felt even worse and immediately tried to forget about it so I went to hang out with my guy friends to take my mind off everything. A couple days later everyone was planning on going for lunch somewhere. I wasn't too keen on going since I didn't want to be around my crush because I wanted to start distancing myself from her. I was told by her friend that she wouldn't be coming because she was busy. I decided to then come along and suprise suprise she was there and she brought her boyfriend with her! Now I swear to god she had to be trolling because she would literally look at me and then kiss her boyfriend. Like you couldn't make this shit up lmaoooo. And it wasn't even subtle either like she would full on make out with him in front of me. Obviously I couldn't bear it since I still loved her so I excused myself from the lunch and said I had a family emergency.
Since then I have fully distanced myself from her and have started to feel slightly better since it's taken my mind off her. However recently, she came up to me with her friends and said I'm selfish for ruining our friendship just because she didn't want to date me. Like I'm not obligated to be her friend right or am I missing something? They've said I'm shallow for cutting off contact/distancing myself from her and are making me the bad guy here.
What do I do in this situation? I can't be her friend because I will always live with that regret/resentment that she's with another guy. I have plenty of female friends that I'm not interested in romantically so that's not a problem - it's just that I can't remain as just a friend if I like a girl romantically.
Tldr: I got rejected by my friend that I have a massive crush on and I no longer want to be friends since I will always have feelings for her. Now her friends are angry at me for becoming distant.
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