2021.12.07 14:41 nzin00 quik question. sipped half a halfset care plus yesterday. am i calm to do the rest tday.
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2021.12.07 14:41 maxxshepard I ignored the appointment call from my therapist today.
Yeah, I should have called in, but I wasn't thinking about the appointment until my phone rang, and by then I was too flustered to answer. She didn't even try to call me back.
Our last session didn't go great, I ended up getting upset and hanging up before our time ended. A little childish, yes, but I have a really bad flight/freeze response when I get upset, and I couldn't even form words, so I just hung up.
I've been with my therapist for 3 years, and I do really like her, but our sessions in the last few months just haven't felt helpful or meaningful to me. She's always very respectful, and understanding. She's never crossed any boundaries, or made me feel unsafe. I'm just frustrated that it hasn't seemed to be doing anything for me lately.
I had surgery back in July, and up until that point, our therapeutic relationship was great. However, something happened when I was under, I had a reaction to the anesthesia or something, and I woke up feeling like I was missing a part of myself mentally. I've gotten better in the last month, but it was really bad for a while. I felt like half a person, like part of my soul was amputated. After that, talking to her felt... Different. Like none of her words held any help for me anymore. On top of that I have been going through some really horrible financial situations, and was just barely holding it together. So I've been stressing so fucking much about that. I talked to her about it at length, but none of her words really did anything to make that situation less dire. It almost felt patronizing to be asked if I was letting my fears snowball, when I had -$15 in the bank. I've left every therapy session lately feeling absolutely shitty, which lasts for the rest of my day.
She has always stayed positive, friendly, and kind, but I think my inability to get anything out of the sessions has started frustrating her. It felt a little like she was phoning it in last session, like she was only half there, which made me upset on top of everything else that was upsetting in the moment, hence the hanging up.
I should have answered and talked to her about this, but I didn't feel like ruining my whole day. And it just feels pointless. I don't know what to do now. I don't really want to start over with a new therapist, and have to build that trust and understanding again. I'm honestly not sure it would make a difference. But I also don't really want to talk to her right now. I NEED a therapist. I'm basically a hermit. I have pretty much 1 friend in the entire world, no family, and I work from home. She's one of only 4 or 5 people I ever talk to, and it's shortsighted to abandon that, but jeez, I just can't find any benefits to our recent sessions.
Idk, any advice?
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2021.12.07 14:41 DissentingJay Long Island - south shore
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2021.12.07 14:41 SentenceExisting5781 Does your mind also always tell you "You're talking to the opposite gender" or "You're about to touch someone from the opposite gender"?
2021.12.07 14:41 Borutosgranfather Anella Miller
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2021.12.07 14:41 choobyboopy (OC) I drew Becky casually doing some laundry
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2021.12.07 14:41 AtomicCortex Christmas is going to be fun this year...
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2021.12.07 14:41 brownbear13131313 We have to talk about immigration and housing crisis.
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2021.12.07 14:41 QuirkyDust3556 Baby needs new Shoes
I have 17k on my Bolt and looking for input on new tires. I live in the Dallas area, so not only mileage but weather is to be considered
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2021.12.07 14:41 SHANTANUxGOD hol'up
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2021.12.07 14:41 ChrisTheFields [SPEcember Day 7] Brothers of the hot Nintendo franchise
2021.12.07 14:41 flymac23 Louisville BBC ready for some action! Hit me up
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2021.12.07 14:41 KendraRaeAye Lunch😋
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2021.12.07 14:41 EestiMentioned [/r/digitalnomad] Intl Tax Lawyer here. AMA (ask me anything) on company structure as a digital nomad
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2021.12.07 14:41 eratus23 [DEC21] It almost feels like Christmas except we have one less family member around the table this year.
2021.12.07 14:41 Borutosgranfather Danielley Ayala
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2021.12.07 14:41 helliax11 Will changing the temp of my garage shop (10-20 degrees?) daily mess up wood/projects?
Building out my garage (2-car) shop and really need some kind of heater. I'm looking for electric and saw that on the higher end ones, you essentially just have a thermostat to keep it at a certain temp. While I'd love for it to be >65 all the time, I doubt my wallet and lack of insulation everywhere will make that realistic. I was thinking about setting it to a lower temperature (50?) and then raising it an hour before I finish my day job or whenever I'd be going in there.
I remodel houses but am pretty much an amateur when it comes to actual woodworking. I've heard plenty of warnings/horror-stories about humidity/temperature changes messing up wood. Would the scenario I describe above be a problem? Raising the temp 10-20 degrees daily? I'm also not sure on energy usage yet so that may be a terribly inefficient way to do it.
Any general advice or product recommendations for heating this space would be appreciated as well.
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2021.12.07 14:41 Poplarblvd Why are some acquisition premiums so high, for some companies?
For example: why would a company like LVMH acquire a company/brand like Tiffany & Co for ~$16B, when Tiffany's is only pulling in ~$600m/yr in net profit?
Is LVMH really only expecting to make their investment back in a couple of decades, or are Tiffany shareholders being compensated with LVMH stock (or the cash raised from LVMH offering/selling new/old shares)?
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2021.12.07 14:41 bogatyrprintables Tortle sage from our newest release. How do you like him?
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2021.12.07 14:41 AlThorStormblessed Meming Every Letter of the Stormlight Archive, part 6
2021.12.07 14:41 justadumbpatoto Roast my portfolio?
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2021.12.07 14:41 luxelinity EST Cola
2021.12.07 14:41 bekkyjl Prodromal Labor
TL;DR: I’m experiencing prodromal labor and it can last a few days to a few weeks. It’s moderately painful too. Has anyone else experienced this? What was your experience like?
I am 38 weeks and 5 days pregnant with my first baby. I started losing my mucus plug after a cervical check last Tuesday. I think it actually started coming out on Wednesday. Thursday mild contractions started but they weren’t consistent or very strong. I could sleep through them. They would be consistent for maybe an hour and then stop for an hour or two, and repeat. On Sunday this week the contractions got worse to the point that I couldn’t sleep through them. They weren’t consistent but they were constant. They never stopped for more than 30 mins. Monday I thought I either peed myself or my water broke so I went to labor and delivery. They checked and I did not have a rupture AND my cervix is only dilated 0.5-1cm. They sent me home and told me to take Tylenol so I can get some sleep. They also informed me that this could continue for a week or two. It’s called prodromal labor and it’s actually a little different than Braxton hicks. Honestly at least half of the contractions that I currently experience are at least moderately painful. I can’t imagine doing this for two more weeks. Anyone else go through this? Weeks of mild-moderately painful labor with little to no cervical change? Any hopeful stories out there? I’m miserable.
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2021.12.07 14:41 jobsinanywhere U.S. to pump $400 million into vaccination programs for other countries
2021.12.07 14:41 king-vamp2 Ken performing w a mask on bc he know he ugly as hell